Very attractive, hot older woman, d/d free, wants a guy to share parts of her life, dinner, movie, concert, bed, etc, (this is what is known as a Friends with Benefits relationship, or an FWB.) FWB is not the same as a fuck buddy, and I believe this to be a point of confusion for some people. I don't need to have you around constantly, I enjoy time on my own, but want more than just casual wham-bam, cya. It would be nice at times to actually just sleep together (of course after we do what we like to each other), to wake up with you. I am a high maintenance gal, really enjoy the finer things in life. In return, for your attention and interest, you will get what you want for a friend; a very intelligent, limber, agile, fun, even tempered, kind, sincere, outgoing, sometimes wild, sometimes mild, genuinely nice, attractive woman, who works out to get the bod I have, who also happens to have a sense of style, great poise, the ability to put people at ease, able to converse, able to zip it (or unzip it!). I am a very visual person, physical appearance, beauty is very, very important to me, a very oral person, who is sexually stimulating, sexually satisfying and sexually aroused by the right man. A woman with experience and knowledge of men, who knows what men like and knows what to do with one. I know how to cook and bake as well, however, not one of my preferred things to do, but enjoy a little food in bed. I am very glad to dote on you, massage and scratch your back, and to anticipate your needs, and if I am able, to meet them. I can be very aggressive in private, play the seductress, or I can be very pliable, I'm really not into "very submissive", depends on you and me, and our wants and desires. It is very important to me to please my partner, and I will take the time to please you, and I do expect the same from you.
P.S. I reserve the right to change my mind, that is my right as a woman, so watch for chameleon-like changes!
News Flash: I am looking to change my life by adding spice to it, as opposed to men who say "I'm not looking to change my life, just want to add some spice and variety to it." Is this not an oxymoron? How can you add a mistress or playgal, or bi-guy, without changing your life?
I need to blog that one.
I have let my gold membership expire, so am now a standard member.
I am no longer interested in long erotic chats, or web-camming with people I will never meet, I have enough things to do every day. It is fun, but at this stage of my life, I don't want to participate in that anymore.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metallica, Tool, Nickelback, Korn, Chris Cornell, Pearl

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love the thought of meeting a man whom I've never met
in person, and dressing up and meeting in public and seeing
how naughty we can be!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage, Good old missionary, Doggie, Exhibitionism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Jake, Vincent, Michael Weatherly, yummmmmmmm

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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